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Tuesday, December 11, 2012

Never get disappointed 不要感到失望

Never get disappointed

Life goes on. Just turn back and see, if you would have not solved any of the problems then how are you existing? My dear, you should just look back and see factually, ask someone else to evaluate. In the last 10 years, you had only problems? Okay, if you have had problems, haven’t you solved even a single problem in the last 10 to 15 years? Then there is no need to solve problems because anyways the problems that came have all gone, and you are still alive, and you are still doing sadhana. That is great thing. That means the problems could not do anything to you. They came and they left, you didn’t even have to find a solution to them. Do you see what I’m saying? Don’t generalize it again or don’t label it, ‘My life is a failure, I am always having problems.’ Always having problems? Not possible!

Look at those who have greater problems, look at the problems I have. Do you know how many questions I have to answer per day? Somebody said, ‘Guruji, if you had charged even $10 per question you could have become bigger than Bill Gates.’ I would not disagree with that person, perhaps yes.
Do you know how many emails I get? 101,000 emails.Last month I traveled to so many countries; 12 countries and 18 cities in 1 month. 19 hours a day I am busy. I just arrive from a long trip, immediately there will be 100 questions I will have to answer.

Accept people as they are, and there are many, bipolar, schizophrenic, and all those other types of specimens as well. Have you ever seen me getting annoyed at any one of them, ever? Just imagine, in this situation to remain sane is a big problem. I heard psychiatrists in their profession end up as patients after a while, because they keep listening to the problem of people.

Michael Fischman was once conducting a course for doctors and their patients and he said, ‘Guruji, you know it was very difficult to say who the doctor is and who the patient is.’ The group was such. I don’t know how far this is true, but I have heard from several people that often people who are doctors in this field they end up as patients.

There was a survey recently done in AIIMS (All India Institute of Medical Sciences), they said that 78% of doctors are sick, they become patients themselves. This is a survey report, astonishing, isn’t it? So, look at those who have more problems than you and you will find your problem is nothing. The world is all problems. Who does not have problems? Jesus had big problems here. The whole Catholicism movement sprung from the problems of Jesus, not by his teachings. It is all focused on suffering, isn’t it? Teaching is there of course, but suffering is the main thing. Nativity is not the symbol of Christianity, it is the cross; crucifixion.

Same with Krishna, he also had so many problems till the end. Finally he had to give up. He said to all his very dear ones, ‘You all go up North. This city of mine is going to drown.’ His own clans were fighting with each other and became so arrogant. Krishna’s clan, all his soldiers and all the subjects of his kingdom, they were all so arrogant because they thought they owned Lord Krishna, he is an enlightened being. ‘The lord himself is ours and we are from his family. Who can do anything to us?’ They went with such arrogance and they fought with each other, destroyed everybody and got destroyed.

That is why I say don’t look for any perfection here, this world is imperfect. Whatever perfection you can bring in the world, bring it, and then wash your hands and enjoy yourself. Definitely do whatever you can. That doesn’t mean you leave some things imperfect, no! You are here to bring whatever perfection level you can, and that much merit you gain. As much as you walk, that many skills will blossom in your own life and that much happier you will be. So if you don’t do anything you will be unhappy. So do things which you are supposed to do and you become free.

不要感到失望
 
生命会继续下去的。你只需要回过头去看过去,你会发现如果不是你已经解决了那些问题,你怎么还会存在?我亲爱的,你应该回看过去,并去看那些事实,然后让其他人去给你评估。
在过去的十年里,你都只是有问题而已吗?那好,如果你有一大堆问题,那难道你在过去的这十年,十五年里都没有解决过任何一个问题吗?那么你就别再去解决任何问题了,因为每每那些出现的问题都会离去的,然而你却还活着,你还是在做着sadhana(练习)。这是件重要的事。这意味着这些问题都不能对你有着多大的影响。它们来了它们又离开了,连解决方案都不需要去找。你们明白我所说的吗?不要去把它们归纳成组别或是标上标签,“我的人生是个失败,我无时无刻都有问题。”无时无刻都有问题?!不可能的!!

去看看那些有着更大问题的人,来看看我的问题。
你知道我每一天要回答多少个问题吗?有人说:“古儒吉,如果你一个问题收费一块钱的话,那你会比比尔盖茨更富有呢。”我不反对那个人那么说,那是有可能的呢。你知道我每一天收到多少个电邮吗?101,000封电邮。上个月我去了很多个国家;一个月内我去了12个国家,18个城市。一天19个小时我都在忙。我才刚刚结束一个长途旅程,才抵达一个地方,就马上有100个问题在等着我去回复。

接受别人的本貌,而那还包挂很多:双极性格,精神分裂,还有很多的类别。你有曾经看到我被这些问题惹恼了吗?
只是需要去想像,在这样的情况下还要保持明智是一个很大的挑战。我曾听说过有一些专业的精神科医生到最后却都成了病人一阵子,因为他们时常都在听别人的问题。


麦克 (Michael Fischman 现任生活的艺术基金会主席)曾经办过一个课程给医生和病人,而他说“古儒吉你知道吗要分辨谁是医生或谁是病人是件很困难的事。”这个组别就是这样。我不知道这件事情的真实性,但是我听很多人说过在这一行的医生多数到最后都变成了病人。

AIIMS(印度医疗考察做过一个调查,他们说道78%的医生都有生病,医生自己成为了病人。这个调查报告很让人意想不
到对吗?所以去看看那么比你有更大的问题的人,那么你的问题都会变成没什么了。这个世界就是所有问题。有谁没有问题呢?耶稣也有大问题。整个天主教主义者是因为耶稣的问题而涌现,而不是因为他的教诲。这些都只是专注在痛苦上,不是吗?教诲是在那里没有错,但是痛苦是主要的。耶稣诞生不是基督教的象征,象征的是十字架,象征的是耶稣被钉死在十字架上。

如奎師那(Krishna),他到最终都有很多的问题。
直到最后他只好放弃了。他对那些最亲近的人说“你们向北去吧,我的城市即将被淹没了”他自己的家族因为傲慢而有了内在的纷争。奎師那的家族,他所有的士兵和他王国所有的一切,他们都很自傲因为他们以为他们拥有奎師那,他是开悟的。“君主是我们的,我们源自于他的家族。谁能拿我们怎么样呢?”。他们是那么的自傲,并在彼此之间斗争着,毁灭所有人而自己也被毁灭掉了。

这就是为什么我说不要去追寻那完美的一面,这个世界是不完美的。你能带给这个世间任何的完美,那你就带吧,然后你就随它去并放轻松。绝对要去做你所能做的。但那并不意味着你能让一些不完美的事情发生,不!你来到这是是要带你所能做到的完美,那是你将会得到的福报。你所走过多少的路,你在生命里的技术也会跟着绽放,你的快乐也跟着增加。如果你什么都不做,那你是不会开心的。所以去做你应该做的事情,那是会让你自由的。

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