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Tuesday, December 11, 2012

Forgive and Forget 原谅和遗忘

Forgive and Forget

Q: Guruji, I am in a situation in which I am neither able to forgive nor forget. Please guide me what to do.
+Sri Sri Ravi Shankar   : Then just think about your death, that you are going to die. Even if you hold on (to the situation), still you will be finished; you will go away from this world. Now, do you want to carry that impression?
Come on, wake up! Life is so short and everybody is like a rag doll. They don’t have a mind of their own. Everyone is like a rag doll, and there is a particular force and energy that is working through everybody. That one Paramakaranakarana is the cause of all causes. The Shiva Tattva is playing, putting different things in different people’s minds. Understand this Advaita knowledge; feel it. We are all made up of the same substance.





All these little minds are there, but the mind is also influenced by a big mind, and according to karma. So, different people act in different ways. Have you noticed that sometimes, you haven’t done anything wrong to anyone, and still they became your enemies? Especially people to whom you have done a lot of good to, they become your enemies. You wonder, this person is my best friend, I did so much for him, and this person became my enemy! Isn’t it? In the same way, there are some people to whom you have not done any special favors, yet they have become your friends, hasn’t this happened? You met someone in the train and then they came out and helped you so much. So both, friendship and enmity happens with some strange law of karma. That is why friends or enemies are all same, because another power is working through them. Knowing this, relax. Similarly, when you do good work, there are people who criticize you. There are people who do horrible work, and there are some people praising them as well. You find it so strange. So, drop them all and relax.

原谅和遗忘

问:古儒吉,我正陷入一个不能原谅别人也不能释怀的一个处境。
请教导我该怎么做。
古儒吉:那你就去想一想你的死亡吧,你终究是会死去的。
就算你紧紧的捉住(那个处境)不放,究竟你还是会结束的;你会离开这个世界。所以现在,你还要带着这个印象吗?
快点醒来吧!生命是短暂的,所有人就像是布娃娃般。
他们是没有属于自己的意识的。每一个人就像是布娃娃一样,而有一股力量和能量在每个人里面操作着。这个Paramakaranakarana就是导致一切所发生的原因。 这是至尊神首希瓦·塔特瓦(Shiva Tattva)在玩游戏,祂把不同的东西放进不同人的脑子里。去理解这些阿兑塔(Advaita--不二论 )的知识;去感觉到它。我们是从同一个实质创造出来的。
这些都是些小念头,但是我们的心智也会被大心智所影响,
它也会被业力牵连着。所以,不同的人有不同的举动。你有没有发现到,有些时候你没对任何人做些什么坏事,但他们还是和你对敌了。尤其是那些你对他们付出过很多的人,他们却成为了你的敌人。你会纳闷,这个人是我的好朋友呀,我为他做了那么多,然而他却成了我的敌人!对不对?同样的,也有一些人你没有对他做过什么特别的,但是他却成为了你的朋友,这一些都有发生过对吗?你在火车上遇到一些人,后来他们帮助了你许多。
 
所以在友谊和敌对两者之间都是因为一些特殊的因果而发生的。
这就是为什么友谊和敌对其实是一样的,因为是另一种力量在操作着他们。明白了这点,你就放松吧。同样的,当你做得很好的时候,但是还是有人批评你。那些做尽坏事的人,也还是有人会赞美他们的。你会觉得那一切都很奇怪。所以就把他们通通都放下吧,放松就好。

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