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Monday, December 24, 2012

Relationship with the youth 和青少年的關係

Q: Guruji, today youth are more interested in drugs, alcohol and pornography. What is your advice for the parents on how should they handle teenagers and how can they have a better relationship with them?

Sri Sri Ravi Shankar: Yes, it is a very delicate issue because teenagers don’t like to be dominated by the parents. Usually there is tendency to do that, so here parents should mellow down a little bit and help understand each other. We need to keep teenagers very busy, give them plenty of entertainment and lots of sports. Give them so much work that they do not have any time for anything. They come back home tired and fall asleep. So it is the age between eight to eighteen that they can learn sports. They should go to the gymnasium, do swimming. You know, when someone has done swimming for an hour, and then some exercise they come back home and all their energy is exhausted and they want to sleep. Morning they wake up fresh and they should learn music, they should be given lot of puzzles, and they should be exposed to a lot of information, entertainment, and education. This is how you can keep the teenagers away from sitting and surfing through the internet and viewing all pornography.

問:古儒吉,現今的青少年對毒品,酒和色情片比較有興趣。你對父母有什麼忠告?他們應該要如何應付這些青少年?他們要如何才能和青少年建立更好的關係?


古儒吉:是的,這是個纖弱的課題,因為青少年不喜歡被父母主宰。
通常他們會有傾向要那麼做,所以父母應該比較圓滑和放下一些身段去互相了解彼此。我們需要讓青少年保持忙碌,讓他們有很多的娛興活動和運動。讓他們做很多事情,以致他們沒有時間去做其它的。他們疲累的回到家裡,然後就睡著了。在八歲到十八歲之間他們可以學習運動。他們應該要去健身,游泳。如果一個人游泳一個小時,然後在做些其他的運動,他們會用完所有的精力,而他們回到家就只想睡覺而已。第二天他們醒來會很有精神,而他們也應該去學音樂,他們可以做很多的拼圖,他們也應該接觸很多的資訊,娛樂和教育。你這樣做可以讓青少年遠離上網和觀看那些色情片。

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