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Tuesday, December 11, 2012

TO SAY SORRY IS A GOOD MISTAKE? 说Sorry是个好的错误?

TO SAY SORRY IS A GOOD MISTAKE? 
 
Often, in establishing your righteousness, you are insensitive to other's feelings. When someone is hurt, arguing with them and establishing your righteousness will be in vain. By saying a simple "Sorry", you can uplift the other and take away the bitterness. In many situations saying "Sorry" is better than establishing your righteousness. It can avert much unpleasantness.

This one word of five letters, when said sincerely can remove anger, guilt, hatred and distance.

Many people feel pride in hearing "Sorry" from others. This boosts their ego. But when you say "Sorry" to a wise man, it evokes compassion at your ignorance. However, when you say "Sorry" to your Guru, He will get angry and say, "Go! Listen to Ashtavakra!" (Laughter) For your saying "Sorry" indicates doership. You feel that YOU have MADE a mistake.
 
A mistake is part of an unconscious mind. An unconscious mind cannot do right. A conscious mind can do no wrong. The mind which makes the mistake and the mind which realizes the mistake - saying "Sorry" - are entirely different, aren't they? The mind which says "Sorry" cannot be an unconscious mind. Therefore, saying "Sorry" sincerely is a BIG MISTAKE!!!

Did you get it or are you confused? If you didn't get it, don't feel sorry or you can feel sorry!! (Laughter)

How strange - truth is paradoxical!



说Sorry是个好的错误?

通常为了建立你的正义,你会忽略了别人的感受。当别人受伤了,你还是继续和他们争执并建立自己的正义,这是徒劳无功的。简单的一句Sorry(对不起),你就可以帮别人提升并带走他们的苦楚。很多情况下说声Sorry,总好过你一味的在建立自己的正义。它能够避免很多不愉快的发生。


这个五个字母的词,当我们有诚意的去说的时候,它会带走愤怒,内疚,仇恨和距离感。

很多人在听到Sorry后会感到骄傲。这提高了他们的我执。但是如果你对一个智者说Sorry,它且会唤起他们对你的无知的怜悯心。但是如果你对你的上司(Guru)说Sorry的时候,他会生气的说『去!去听阿什塔夫梵歌》!(Ashtavakra)』。因为你的Sorry是带着有为者的想法。你想的是你“制造”了这个错误。

错误是无意识心智的一体。无意识的心智是不能把事情做对的。一个有意识的心智是不会做错任何事的。一个犯错的心智,和一个看清错误的心智会说“Sorry”——这两者是不同的,对吗?说“Sorry”的心智不会是个无意识的心智。所以有诚意的说“Sorry”也是一个大错误!!

你清楚了吗?还是你已经被混淆了?如果你还不清楚,那不要觉得Sorry或是你也可以觉得Sorry!!(笑声)

真奇怪 - 真理是自相矛盾的!!

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