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Thursday, January 3, 2013

An Awkward Situation 尷尬的處境

An Awkward Situation
 
Why do you feel awkward? And how do you get out of it?

If you have always been the center of attention, and are suddenly sidelined, you may feel out of place. Similarly if you have always been on the side lines, and are suddenly pushed to center stage, you may experience restlessness. If you are used to ordering, and suddenly have to take orders, or, if you usually follow orders, and you are made to give them, you may feel out of place. A very busy person with nothing to do, or a laid back person who is faced with a lot of responsibilities may experience restlessness. Very often, feeling out of place blocks the reason and distorts the logic.


If the situation you are in is inevitable, tolerate it. If it’s avoidable, walk out of it. If you feel that it can expand your abilities, smile through it. Every awkward situation increases your comfort zone. Every awkward situation is a test for how deep you are in the Knowledge.

Love something of an awkward situation. This will increase your comfort zone. When your comfort zone increases, no one will be able to push your buttons and you will become so centered and unshakable.

 
尷尬的處境

你為什麼會感到尷尬?你又如何處理它?
如果你時常都是人們的焦點,突然間你被冷落了


你會覺得不舒服。同樣的如果一直以來你都是默默的在傍邊的,突然間你被推上台了,你會覺得很焦慮。如果你習慣下命令,突然你變成需要聽從別人的命令,又或者是你通常都習慣遵從指令,而突然間你變成需要發指令,你會覺得不自在。一個很忙的人變成無事可做,或是一個很悠閒的人突然需要承擔起很多的責任,這些都會讓人覺得焦慮。很多時候那個不自在的感覺會阻礙推理和扭曲邏輯。
如果那個處境是無法避免的,那就容忍它吧。如果是可以避免的,那就從那處境中離開。如果你覺得它可以增強你的能力,你就微笑接受它。每一個尷尬的處境會增加你的舒適區。每一個尷尬的處境是個測試,考驗你在這個知識裡的深度。

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